How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 05:59
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Women like what they hear while men like what they see, it that true?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
How do you take your erotic photos and how do you choose the poses?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
What I need from you?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Can ringing in the ears be a sign of spiritual awakening?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Does not procrastinate.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Any straight men had a gay experience in the past? What was it and how did you feel?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Why do wives cheat with black guys?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
What is the happy reality of our generation?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Making more friends is a goal.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Hangs out with loser friends.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Why do I feel like I want to suck a big dick after injecting meth?
Ask yourself:
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Has anyone shared his wife with a friend? How was it?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
What are some effective strategies for getting more upvotes on Quora?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Procrastinates a lot.
Why can’t conservatives accept the fact that they are stupid?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
That's it for today.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.